~Pampering Pumpkin~

Scraps of Mind Whilst Reading Atomic Habit page 171 said "Pain is an effective teacher. If a failure is painful, it gets fixed. If a failure is relatively painless, it gets ignored." It is damned true. 😀 The more immediate and more costly a mistake is, the faster you will learn from it. The threat of a bad review forces a plumber to be good at his job. The possibility of a customer never returning makes restaurants create good food. The cost of cutting the wrong blood vessel makes a surgeon master human anatomy and cut carefully. When the consequences are severe, people learn quickly. In another word, it says life thought you a hard lesson.  Some and other things made me conclude a thing. Falling in love is not a decision. It is just happened. So that when you decide not to fall to someone, it is definitely not a love. How can you decide if you don't? and also conversely, How can you decide not to if you do? ah.. It is ALWAYS easy to say and hard to do...